Spirit Babies: What They Are and How They Influence Your Fertility Journey
If you're reading this, chances are you're somewhere on your fertility journey—perhaps trying to conceive naturally, considering IVF or other fertility treatments, or maybe you've experienced loss and are seeking answers. Maybe you’re years in, an IVF warrior, or maybe you’re just getting started trying to conceive, or considering if you want kids one day.
Whatever brought you here, I want you to know that you're not alone. As a spirit baby medium, I've had the privilege of connecting countless parents with their spirit babies, and so many of you have shared experiences. I've witnessed firsthand how these beautiful souls can transform your entire fertility journey.
Understanding Spirit Babies: More Than Just Hope
When I first mention spirit babies, I often see a mix of curiosity and skepticism. "What exactly is a spirit baby?" they ask. Simply put, a spirit baby is the soul of your future child who exists in the spiritual realm before conception. Spirit babies are souls connected with pregnancy loss, too. Spirit babies are souls before they are born. These aren't just wishful thoughts or projections of our desires—they're actual conscious beings with their own personalities, preferences, and profound wisdom about their journey to you.
As a baby spirit medium, I've learned that spirit babies are incredibly active participants in your fertility journey. They're not passive souls waiting in some distant realm. Instead, they're intimately connected to your process, partnering with you to get here. Sometimes they offer guidance about timing, healing, and preparation. Or, it may be your guides who lend guidance and suggestions specific to you and your spirit baby. Many of my clients are amazed when they discover that their baby spirit has been trying to communicate with them all along—through dreams, synchronicities, or that persistent feeling that their child is "almost here."
How Spirit Babies Influence Your Fertility Journey
The Emotional Landscape of Conception
Your fertility journey is deeply emotional, whether you're trying to conceive naturally or going through IVF or other medical assistance options. The monthly cycles of hope and disappointment can feel overwhelming. But here's what I've observed: when parents begin connecting with their spirit babies, something beautiful shifts. The desperate energy of "trying" transforms into a collaborative relationship with their future child.
Veronica, one of my clients, had been through three failed IVF cycles when she first came to see me. She was emotionally exhausted and considering giving up. During our session, her spirit baby came through with the most gentle, loving energy. The message was clear: "I'm here, Mom. I'm just waiting for you to slow down and heal your heart." Sarah realized she had been so focused on the physical aspects of conception that she'd neglected her emotional well-being. After six months of therapy and energy healing work, IVF finally worked —her spirit baby had guided her to exactly what she needed.
Note that client names have been changed to maintain sacredness and confidentiality. I’ve also combined client stories together in some cases for further anonymity <3
Divine Timing and Conscious Conception
One of the most challenging aspects of any fertility journey is the question of timing. Why haven't I conceived yet? Why did my IVF treatment fail? Why do others seem to get pregnant so easily? As a spirit baby medium, I've come to understand that spirit babies have their own sense of divine timing, and it's often quite different from our human urgency. They’re up there, with the stars, deciding between different birthdays. They’re up there, assessing how much capacity and space you really have for them. They’re seeing things from a much different view and sense of time - even if they really really wanna get here, as much as you want them here, too.
Conscious conception involves aligning with your spirit baby's timing rather than fighting against it or forcing it. This doesn't mean being passive or giving up on fertility treatments—it means approaching your journey with awareness and openness to your baby's guidance and the guidance of your/their guides. Sometimes spirit babies wait because you need to heal from past trauma or change something big or simply feel your womb and body and slooooow down. Sometimes they're waiting for the right partner, living situation, or emotional readiness. And sometimes, they're simply orchestrating a more meaningful, perfect arrival story. Remember… this is going to be their LIFE! They only get one beginning.
Messages Beyond Words
Spirit baby messages come in many forms, and learning to recognize them can completely transform your fertility experience. During my sessions as a baby medium, I've seen spirit babies communicate through:
Physical sensations: Sudden waves of love or peace during difficult fertility treatments
Dreams: Vivid dreams about children or a child, especially recurring ones with specific details
Synchronicities: Seeing repeated numbers, finding baby items unexpectedly, or meaningful animal encounters
Intuitive knowing: That persistent feeling that your child is a boy or girl, or strong pulls toward certain names
Monica came to me after her second miscarriage, devastated and afraid to hope again. During our session, her spirit baby showed me a beautiful image of three butterflies—one that had already emerged and two still in its cocoon. The message was profound: "The first two pregnancies was my siblings, sent to test the womb prepare the way. I'm still coming, but my timing will be perfect." Five months later, Monica discovered she was pregnant and carried to term. Her spirit baby had been trying to tell her all along that this pregnancy would be different.
Supporting Your Fertility Treatments
Many people wonder if spirit babies have preferences for medical fertility treatments like IVF. The answer is absolutely yes. Spirit babies are deeply invested in their arrival and will often work within whatever methods you choose to conceive or have specific preferences. Sometimes, your spirit babies have questions about the procedures, and it can help opening up dialogue so they’re on the same page and not confused and left behind.
I've had clients receive specific guidance about:
Timing of procedures: Spirit babies sometimes indicate optimal timing for fertility treatments
Treatment choices: Guidance about which clinic, doctor, or approach feels most aligned
Emotional preparation: Messages about what spiritual or ritual work can support treatment
Hope during setbacks: Reassurance during failed cycles that they're still coming
What are some Ways to Connect with Your Spirit Baby?
Creating Sacred Space
One of the most powerful things you can do is create a dedicated space or altar for connecting with your spirit baby. This doesn't need to be elaborate—a small corner with a candle, some flowers, and perhaps a journal is perfect. This could be a special area in your house, or where you’ll have a nursery. Use this space for:
Daily check-ins: Simply sitting quietly and inviting your spirit baby's presence
Letter writing: Journaling to your future child about your hopes, fears, and love
Meditation: Quiet moments to listen for guidance or messages (check my YouTube for guided meditations)
Gratitude practice: Thanking your spirit baby and for their presence, even before arrival. Remember to thank your guides, too <3
Trusting Your Intuition
Your fertility journey is unique, and your spirit baby will communicate with you in ways that are meaningful to you. Maybe you feel called to change your diet, start therapy, or even switch fertility clinics. These intuitive nudges often come from your baby spirit guiding you toward what's needed for conception. This can be a great way to weed through the miles long list of fertility recommendations! Review options with your spirit baby.
Working with a Spirit Baby Medium
If you're struggling to connect on your own, working with a spirit baby medium can be incredibly helpful. During sessions, I act as a translator between you and your spirit baby, helping you understand their messages and guidance. These sessions often provide:
Clarity about timing: Understanding why conception hasn't happened yet
Healing guidance: What spiritual, emotional, or physical healing might support conception
Reassurance: Confirmation that your baby is still with you
Practical guidance: Specific suggestions for supporting your fertility journey
Your Spirit Baby Is Already Part of Your Family
Whether you're just beginning to try to conceive, in the middle of fertility treatments, or recovering from loss, your spirit baby is already part of your family. They're not waiting in some distant place—they're with you right now, offering love, guidance, and unwavering commitment to joining your family when the timing is perfect. Or honoring that they are part of your family for any incomplete pregnancies.
Your fertility journey might not look like you expected, but it's unfolding exactly as it needs to for your unique family story. Trust in the process, stay open to your spirit baby's connection, and remember that love transcends the physical realm. Your child is already on their way to you, bringing with them everything needed for a beautiful arrival when the time is right.
Remember, every fertility journey is sacred, and yours is no exception. Your spirit baby sees your efforts, feels your love, and is working just as hard as you are to make your dreams of parenthood a reality. You are in this together.
Does this resonate with you? Schedule your Spirit Baby Reading and start to receive the messages they are hoping you receive.
-Justine Cohen
Spirit Baby Medium
6/9/25
